From Frazzled to Fun

Heartbroken, we have learned today of the assassination of Charlie Kirk. While our hearts ache with grief, we can be certain that he has already entered into the joy of his Lord, hearing those cherished words: “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” No doubt, he is already receiving eternal rewards in Heaven for a life lived in courage, conviction, and sacrificial service.

Lord, we ask You to surround Erika with Your presence. Be her Comforter, her Shelter, and her Peace. Hold her tightly, wrap her in Your arms, and let her experience the kind of supernatural peace that transcends human understanding. May Your abiding joy—even in sorrow—become her strength in the days ahead. I have tasted this in my own deepest valley, and I know You are faithful to give it. For Charlie’s children, we pray they would never forget the legacy of their father: brave, wise, bold, godly, a hero who poured out his life for God and for the good of this nation. May that memory inspire them to carry forwa...

During prayer group one morning, as a sister lamented how “messed up” young people seem today, I sensed the Holy Spirit whisper something deeply moving to my heart:

"Young people, even those who were fortunate enough to make it to birth, have faced nefarious campaigns against them every single day of their lives."

What was the Father’s heart in that moment?
Not judgment. Not frustration.

Compassion.

Pure compassion and love for His hurting children.

And friend, I believe that compassion and love are being poured out in a fresh way right now — transforming lives and ready to transform our culture.

Do you see it?

• In February 2023, students at Asbury University worshiped day and night for 16 days, unable to pull away because the Presence of God was so strong.
• In May 2025, 5,000 students filled Baylor’s Foster Pavilion to worship and hear the Gospel.
• This summer, 45,000 people crowded into Angel Stadium for the Harvest Crusade, with 5,500 publicly choosing to follow Christ.
• Even
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Can I share something amazing with you? Earlier this year, I walked into a retreat with my back screaming at a level 9 pain. I could barely shuffle into the room, tears streaming, wondering how I could possibly deliver the one-hour keynote I was scheduled to give. Then, as my dear friend Jill prayed for me, I heard the Lord whisper to my heart: “I’ve got your back.” Moments later, as I started walking toward the stage, the pain went from a 9…to ZERO. Completely gone. I gave that message with full focus, packed up after a full day, and never once thought again about my back. Isn’t God good?  That moment was a vivid reminder to me that our God is greater than any attack of the enemy, stronger than any pain, and faithful when we dare to trust Him. Let me back up and give you the bigger picture. That same weekend was my Coach Mom Live Retreat. Eighty moms gathered—many foster and adoptive moms carrying unimaginable challenges. The enemy tried ...

Chris - Leading strong at Wellspring Church; hunting pheasants, quail and dove with Ruby; expanded his vegetable garden, serving on a few boards

Brenna - Planning 3rd annual Feb. “Coach Mom Live” Retreat for adoptive and foster moms, serving officially as Wellspring Church’s Women’s Ministry Coordinator, leading Arise & Shine weekday morning prayer group on Zoom.

C&B - Celebrated 34 yr anniversary in Maui, spoke for a family conference in El Salvador, enjoying “Pop” and “Gigi” life

Dillon - In his second year of Family Medicine Residency in Indiana. Doing recruiting for his program and involved with Notre Dame medical ethics. So many books, so little time….

Derek & Taylor - Leading worship in many places together. Singing professionally more, including Elijah in Mendelssohn’s Elijah. The choir & acting teacher at a nearby private high school. Taylor released her album in the Spring. 

Caleb & Michelle - New job/new home/new baby! Moved into a new PHX house in summer, had home birth...

It is vitally important, especially in the times in which we live, for our children (and us!) to see models of faith-filled men and women through the ages who "inquired of the Lord" and did hard and counterintuitive things.

When a pacifist is called to a political act that could change the course of history, how will a man of honor respond?

Now in theatres is a chance for all of us to be inspired by the courageous actions of a God-loving man.

This is the true story of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a man who preached love while plotting the assassination of an evil tyrant.

With world-shattering stakes, Bonhoeffer: Pastor. Spy. Assassin. begs the question, how far will you go to stand up for what’s right?

We have our tickets to see it tonight!

I hope you and your family will also be able to go.

May we all understand we are here for such a time as this, and God will use us to bring his Kingdom to Earth as we pray, listen and respond!

P.S. Have you signed up for Coach Mom Live 2025, F...

Our prayers for our country are being answered, hallelujah!  (Urgent prayer request for TOMORROW at the end of this post, by the way!)

Did you see patriots break out in "How Great Thou Art" after our President-Elect delivered his speech the night of the election? What a huge breakthrough for our country, and in turn for our families! Our prayers have turned the tide.

However, many young adults I have talked to in the last 4 years have been so disillusioned by the state of our country that they have said they are considering not having children.

We need to share hope with these young people -- great days are ahead for our country, and others!

God has blessed us with a leader who has vision to repair our country and the ability to execute a plan to get there.

Have you heard what's coming? Here are just a few sneak peeks...

Education:

Donald Trump announces his 10-point plan to rebuild America's school system, including

• bringing back prayer into classrooms
• project-based learnin...

Have you voted yet?

I've been disheartened this critical election season to hear many Christians say they plan to sit this one out. 

“Get everyone you know, and everyone you don't know, drag them to register to vote,” Elon Musk said at an October 2024 Butler, PA Rally. “If they don’t, this will be the last election. That’s my prediction.” 

If you can't vote for someone, at least vote against another. 

A choice not to vote is a vote for the opposing side.

Can you imagine sitting this out and seeing your children grow up in a nation that continues to kill millions of more babies each year, allows men to compete against your daughters in women's sports, and whose churches have to go underground to gather for worship services?

What if you then had to admit to them that you didn't vote against it in the historical 2024 election, the election where everything hung in the balance?

No doubt, this is a battle between a good and evil agenda.

If you feel that is an exaggeration, maybe you...

Posting today with a recommendation to listen to this interview, which could be a big help as you navigate your family's health journey.

You most likely will be shocked to hear what Dr. Ardis has to share.

Due to the number of people who have reached out to me regarding this interview from last week telling me they not only listened to it but also took notes on it, I feel the need to share it with you.

Here are just 5 of the takeaways:

1. Did you know you have been feeding nicotine to your family all your life and didn't know it?

It's in

• cauliflower
• celery
• eggplant
• green tomatoes

Nicotine is in God-given plants?

Yes, and every immune cell has nicotine receptors to turn them on. 

2. The nicotine in cigarettes is only addictive because of the pyrazine chemicals added to it...addictive because of added chemicals, not because of the nicotine itself. (Mind blown!)

3.This natural substance, nicotine, is proven and published to reverse and prevent these diseases:

• Parkinson
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It's time to wake up and get into action! Those of us who love God must all work together for the sake of our children and our children's children.

And we can even do it through creative ways like hosting a party, mentioned later in this post.

We are in a battle to save the lives of babies, the reproductive future of our children, God's plan for marriage and the family, and America's freedoms.

Why would you not get involved right now in choosing government leaders?

• You are frustrated with the system?
• You are too overwhelmed with your own personal life and family?
• You are confused by all the mixed messages?
• You have a dislike for politics?
• You feel an aversion to a personality?
• You don't feel it will make a difference?
• You don't feel you have the time?

I encourage you to remember this: When the righteous thrive, the people rejoice; when the wicked rule, the people groan. Prov. 29:2

We must push past obstacles that would keep us from engaging in Jesus' Name for such a tim...